The Dance of Marriage
About
the 2005 State Conference
Saturday Workshops
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Session 1. 9:30 - 11:00 |
Session 2. 11:15 - 12:45 |
Session 3. 2:30 - 4:00 |
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A. Dancing the
Two-Step in Communication.
(Congdons) Loving communication is one of the basic dance steps in your marriage. Tools and techniques as easy as the “Two-Step” take on new meaning when done knee-to-knee. A Power Point presentation and couple interaction help develop the “Cha-Cha-Cha” in your marriage. |
D. You’re Stepping on My Toes. (Walkers) Differences, conflict, and
anger can be a crisis or an opportunity. If treated in a
creative way these negative feelings can be turned into more intimacy.
If not, they can be become a crisis - acute or chronic. Participants will be challenged to learn
how to be creative, so that the dancing rhythm of their relationship will not
be interrupted. |
G. 10 Dances to Make Your Marriage Sing. (Roys) Tired of just going out to
dinner and a movie? We will teach you
10 “steps” to energize your marriage with fun-filled dates based on the book 10
Great Dates by David and Claudia Arp.
This workshop will lead you to many fun-filled evenings together. |
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B. Being Married in Front of the Kids - Dances with Wolves! (Glissons) Although parenting can be
both fulfilling and highly rewarding, children can represent a source of
tension and challenges for couples.
This workshop will give you opportunities to talk about the balance of
attention given your marriage vs. the attention given to your children. |
E. Dance of the Five Love Languages. (Rodgers) People give & receive love in different ways; these are the five languages of love, as determined by Dr. Gary Chapman’s research. If you & your partner “speak” & “hear” in different love languages, you will be stepping on each other’s feet in your emotional love dance. Learn the primary love languages of you & your partner so that you will be better able to dance together in harmony. |
H. Romance in
Dancing. (Richters) Learn some real dance techniques from a pro. Put some rhythm in your marriage with new dancing skills: the beauty of the waltz, the lively swing, the rhythm of the rumba, the sexy tango, the intimacy of slow dancing, all energizing your marriage! Bette is an Arthur Murray trained instructor, with music by Bob on the boom-box. Use the skills you learn at Saturday night’s dance. |
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C. Family-of-Origin Dances. (Alanders) How you dance together now is greatly influenced by the way
you danced in the past. Learn how those old steps still influence
your dance.
Family-of-Origin Dances will deal with the expectations we have when we marry
and bring behavior models that we learned from our family & life
experiences. |
F. Tango Toward
Each Other Instead of Away. (Reinas) Many people think that the
secret to reconnecting with their partner is a candlelit dinner or a
by-the-sea vacation. But the real secret is to turn toward each other
in little ways every day. Learn some techniques for turning toward your
spouse in the "dance of marriage" instead of dancing alone. |
I. Laughter in the Dance of Marriage. (Orrs) This workshop is designed to bring laughter back into marriage that everyday life tends to take away from us. “Step” back from the stresses of life and focus on marriage & laughter. The Dance of Marriage is more enjoyable when humor is part of your routine. |
Saturday Mini-Retreat (9:30
am – 5:00 pm)
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Learning the Basic Marriage Enrichment Dance Steps. (Arnolds) This workshop is recommended for couples who are not familiar with the basic Marriage Enrichment principles or couples who want to review the basic Marriage Enrichment skills. It will provide you with tools to start using some of the ACME Marriage Enrichment concepts, especially in the areas of Communication, Commitment, and Conflict resolution (the ACME 3 Cs). |